365 Devotions for Hope – Interview with author, Karen Whiting

365Devotions4Hope - Karen WhitingWhen people read my Heart Talk blog, one of the main things I want them to find is hope—even when it’s “in unexpected places.”  As long as we have hope, we can make it through even the toughest situations. Today I’m pleased to interview Karen Whiting about one of her latest books, 365 Devotions for Hope. Karen is an international speaker, former TV host, and the author of twenty-two books. She loves to let creativity splash on the pages she writes as she reaches out through her writing to help nurture wholesome families. If you’d like a FREE copy of Karen’s book, you can make a comment at the end of this interview to enter our drawing. Karen has also offered to give away a copy of another new book, releasing at the end of the year, called Christmas is Coming: Waiting is Hard. So make your comments below.

Linda: Karen, tell us why you believe hope is so important and why you decided to write about it.

Karen: Hope is what pulls us out of the deep trenches of pain. Hope is the anchor that we cling to tightly during storms that crash into our lives.

Linda: What are some of the topics and themes in your book, 365 Devotions for Hope?

Karen: The hope of the future, love, expectations, seeds of hope, CPR for hopeless times, hope when facing the unexpected, hope for the hurting, hope through renewed thinking, letting go of gloomy thoughts, and laughter.

Linda: Why is it sometimes so difficult to find hope even when we believe in God’s love and sovereignty?

Karen: We are human and our emotions are real. When we hurt, we don’t want platitudes. We want to fill the loneliness, sorrow, and other emotions we feel. In an instant gratification world, it’s hard to slowly go through the process and stages of grief. Time is still a great healer. We do need to allow ourselves to cry and take time for the healing.

Linda: Hope is what keeps us going in particularly hard times, but there are some situations where hope seems so remote. What are some thoughts for those facing struggles like divorce, marital separation, or death of a loved one?

Karen: A home that once filled with laughter and love is broken and shattered by divorce or loss. That’s a time to forgive and let God’s love fill the empty spots. It’s a time to renew friendships and invite friends in. It’s also a time to look outward, go to a place where you can see the horizon and know that God can see beyond the devastation you see now. He knows what blessings are coming. Cling to the hope of that future. Choose to hope.

Linda: What are a few times in your own life when you found hope when you needed it?

Karen: I need hope every day, but a few big struggles included the devastation of Hurricane Andrew to our home and the loss of my parents and then my husband.

Linda: What helped with the hurricane?Karen Whiting

Karen: A lot of it is in our attitude. My family likes to laugh. Before I even left the closet, I laughed. I had read scriptures all night to the children (hubby was away on military orders) and just read about Jesus calming the storm . We prayed and everything stilled. Silence reigned until my oldest son piped up, “Mom. You should have read that one first.”

When we realized the hurricane had totaled two bedrooms, the kitchen and lots of other things—altogether totaling $99,000—we added thanks and felt grateful for what remained.

Linda: What helped as you faced the loss of your mom, your dad, and your husband?

Karen: Remembering and sharing happy times in the past and laughing together even as my mom and later husband faced terminal cancer. Our family remained close and shared stories as we also shared our sorrow. We made care packages for my mom, and my younger daughter recorded songs for my husband. All those helped us focus on the love we shared and the eternal hope of God.

Laughter helps us smile and face hardships easier. When Jim had chemo, he’d say, “Ah, just as I got my superman strength back, they hit me with kryptonite again” and other little jokes.

We shared stories of fun times from the past. We always laughed when we recalled how our 2.5 year old son had not talked except a few words until he fell off a sled Jim was pulling through the snow. Micahe stood up and yelled, “Hey, Dad, what’s the big idea?”

With Dad, we had him retell times he snitched watermelons or other antics as a child. One of the last days my dad was able to talk, his little sister came to the hospital and he ended up telling her for the first time everything that happened the day of her birth (he was 16). She shared some of her favorite memories with him. Sharing stories and laughter are some of the best ways to say goodbye.

Linda: I’m intrigued by your care package idea. I know you didn’t live close to your parents at the time. What little treasures did you include?

Karen: Photos and taped messages, dry shampoo, favorite snacks, tiny stuffed animals, and gifts the children made. It provided something positive for my parents to talk about each day. Some days Mom opened several as we promised to send new packages as needed.

Linda: What do you say to a woman who’s lost her husband to give her hope?

Karen: Sometimes it is better not to speak, but to simply hug the person and sit with her. Listen to her as she talks of her loss. Then hug her again.

Linda: There are lots of books on hope, but I know your book is a devotional book. How is reading a devotional book on hope different from reading a regular book on hope?

Karen: A devotional gives people small bites every day. Often, when someone is depressed or needing hope it is harder to focus for a long time so a little bit is easier. Also, for those struggling over a long period, having something positive each day gives them a continual lift about the problems.

Linda: I noticed you have an anchor on the cover of your book? Is there any significance to that? What are a few of the illustrations you use in the book?

Karen: As a Coast Guard wife, I use quite a few nautical illustrations with different types of anchors, tides, and moorings. I also use the newness of flowers, a child’s laugh, and quotes plus anecdotes from people who overcame great odds.

Linda: Where can people find your book, 365 Devotions for Hope?

Karen: Anywhere books are sold. I suggest they support their local bookstores as they are beacons of light in a dark world and disappearing too fast. You can find more about my other books at (www.karenwhiting.com)

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Comments

  1. This book sounds wonderful! I would love to win one. I could always use more hope!
    thank you!

  2. Rhonda Brewer says

    Sounds like a great book and I would love to read it.

  3. kathy jones says

    I would like to read this.

  4. This book sounds much like Broken Heart on Hold, which got me through the first couple years after my husband of 31 years left. It sounds like one I could use now as I work through my recovery and cling to hope that he would also seek help someday come back to Christ. I still have hope in my days of loneliness after so many years…a lifetime together.

  5. Hope was what kept me going through the two years I was separated from my husband. Hope that God had a plan for us. Hope that what ever his plan was, was going to be bigger and better. God was and is an amazing father. Couldn’t have done it without him.

  6. My hope is faint. I doubt. I question. I don’t understand why so much suffering. I am interested in what you have to say.

    • It is hard to watch suffering. God gave us free will and that includes allowing people to choose to hurt others. It’s a fallen world with sickness and trouble, but the greater hope is heaven and Jesus.

      • Ruth Hirniak says

        Yes the greater hope is heaven…is Jesus…and yet when your whole life is turned upside down and answers don’t come year after year…when it seems your whole life has been so dysfunctional and sad where you wonder why you were brought into the world….makes it hard to hope…hard to trust. And its not even really about me…its about God and the path he has made for me…only I’m always questioning what purpose he has for me.

  7. I want to apologize to all of you who made comments. For some reason, I was not being notified of comments being posted and didn’t think there were any. Now when I went inside my website to look for something else, I see all these comments! I’m sooo sorry! I will notify the author and do the drawing belatedly. Thank all of you for commenting. If you ever comment again and don’t see it posted, and if you’re on my Facebook Page or have my email, please let me know so I can check into it. God’s richest blessings to you all.

  8. Congratulations to Linda, who is the winner in the drawing. Linda, I have sent you an email. Please respond by sending me your mailing address. Congratulations! I hope the book provides the comfort and hope you need throughout the coming year.

    • Your email came at just the right moment! Thank you! I have responded to it. I look forward to including the book in my daily prayer time.

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